Man health factors. Calcium assimilation: favorable and unfavorable factors favorable and unfavorable factors

Evaluation and Analysis of the Environment - the first step in choosing a suitable place for housing.

The tips listed in this section are advisory and cannot be considered as a guide to action.

Practice Feng Shui largely depends on intuition and common sense. Improving your perception, you begin to feel the movement and direction of energy flows.

Having studied the immediate environment of the alleged housing, you can estimate the overall environment in the area.

This assessment is made from a number of different factors, the detailed listing of which will not benefit, as many of them can be both positive and negative depending on the circumstances.

Favorable factors

It is best to live in natural natural conditions - among forests and meadows, rivers and lakes. If the energy of these places is not very violated, and the landscape forms comply with the requirements, then housing, built in nature, will have the best Feng Shui.

If you live in the city, then, first of all, you should look for a house (apartment) located next to the park, pond or environmental zone. Plants and water spread favorable energy.

To live well next to the temple or the center of spiritual development. Activities that promotes spiritual development creates nutrient energy and has a stabilizing, strengthening effect on the entire adjacent area.

Well, if there is a kindergarten or playground near the house. Children emit vital energy, charged by cheerfulness and optimism. It is even better if the playground is not located in the courtyard, but in a small park.

Various institutions where benevolent communication between people occurs is a source of beneficial energy. These include clubs in interests, cozy cafes and small restaurants, local shops and grocery markets, in addition to bulk markets. In general, it is good to live where there is your "spirit of places", distinguishing this area from others.

All sorts of health facilities are a source of healing energy. These are rollers, swimming pools, gymnastic halls, fitness and healing centers, yoga and meditation, even homeopathic pharmacies and east medicine benches. This does not include hospitals and specialized clinics, because in modern cities they are associated with the majority of people with diseases, suffering and death.

Schools, colleges and lyceums, where the work of teachers and students is aimed at learning and self-improvement, have a beneficial effect.

Adverse factors

Try not to settle near cemeteries, morgues, bureaus of ritual services, crematoriums and other institutions related to death and funeral. They accumulate and enhance the congestive energy of Si-qi, creating an atmosphere of gloomy and despondency.

Advocate to live near prisons, police sites and other agencies associated with crime. In such areas, the streams of the wandering aggressive energy of Sha-Qi caused by excess violence are created.

Do not live near the Terikonov. Poisonous substances that are formed as a result of their combustion are harmful to health. In addition to poisonous substances, unclean spirits overlook the terricons extracted from the depths of the Earth.

Avoid houses located near power plants and high-voltage lines. The powerful concentration of energy around these places violates the movement of natural energy streams and has a destructive impact on the psyche.

Do not live in a house near the garbage dump or waste recycling. The waste contains a lot of stagnant energy that is transmitted to the surrounding area.

Try not to live in close proximity to the casino, amusement parks and crowded shopping centers. The powerful contradiction of the energy of these places and the constant money turnover can have an adverse effect on the well-being of residents at home.

Do not live near the meat processing plant, slaughterhouses and the like places. Any activity related to the murder generates destructive energy.

If you don't like some place, then you have for this reason, even if you are not quite aware of them. You trust your intuition more, and you will make sure that the feelings are not deceived.

I want to touch on the topic of compatibility of some micro and macronutrients. The fact is that you can think as much as you like that you are right, breakfast buckwheat cashem with milk or drinking your dinner (until recently did it so much), but not to know that most of the most useful substances from certain products You just do not absorb. Our food, ranging from meat / fish and ending with vegetables and fruits, and so far from those standards for the content of vitamins, fiber and other useful elements that were present a few more years ago, and if we also be incorrectly combined these "depleted »Products, then healthy teeth, bones and hair we do not see how your ears.

And today we will talk about such a macronutritite as calcium.

Calcium is a lot in parsley, dill, green onions, beans, broccoli, dairy products, significantly less in meat, fish, eggs.

1. On the assimilation of calcium primarily affects its relationship with phosphorus. The most favorable ratio of sa and p - 1: 1.5. If there is a significant excess of phosphorus in comparison with calcium, then calcium is poorly absorbed. It is for this reason that there are tons of fish and meat that are rich in phosphorus, such science as nutritiology does not recommend. With elevated doses of meat products, an excess of phosphorus occurs, phosphorus begins to accumulate and is not excreted from tissues and bones, which leads to a violation of the kidney, nervous system and bone tissues. At the same time, the absorption of calcium is slowed down, the formation of vitamin d slows down, the functions of the parachitoid glands are disturbed. Stones can form in the kidneys, the threat of iron deficiency anemia and vascular diseases will also appear. So fans of meat and fish, I advise you to use them in dosage quantities.

2. Also a negative effect on calcium suction has an excess of magnesium in the diet. Products rich in magnesium: wheat bran, cereals, legumes, drinkers, prunes. Although today to get an excess of magnesium derived from food, it will be very difficult, I would even say, it is almost unrealistic, it is still worth remembering that the optimal ratio of Ca and Mg - 1: 0.5. This should be remembered to those who decide to take magnesium in additives, this way in such a way to disrupt the right relation in the body of these two elements will be very simple. So taking MG, always remember CA.

3. Another adverse factor that has an impact on the absorption of calcium, it is sorval (Contained in sorrel, spinach, rhubarb and cocoa) and Inosforphic acid (Contained in cereals), which form insoluble salts.

But Vitamin D, on the contrary, has a positive effect on the absorption of calcium. Moreover, without vitamin D calcium is not absorbed at all. The largest amount of vitamin D is contained in cod liver, halibut, herring, mackerel, tuna, mackerels, and it is also contained in egg yolk, seafood, fermented milk products. But on the milk, I would like to stop a little more. The fact is that if you take milk, yogurt, cottage cheese or any other dairy product, from which fat completely removed, then in such products vitamin D is completely absent, since this vitamin is fat-soluble, and there are no fat in low-fat products! That is why completely defatted dairy products can not be eaten constantly, as possible with time to get osteoporosis and calcium deficiency. It turns out that completely defatted cottage cheese is a bad source of calcium for your bones and teeth. Therefore, choose cottage cheese / yogurt / kefir and low fatty milk (1.5-5%), but not completely degreasing.

Type of lesson combined

Methods:partially search Pro-worn output, reproductive, explained-illustrative.

Objectives:

Awareness of life as the highest value, the ability to build their relations with nature and society on the basis of respect for life, to the whole living as a unique and invaluable part of the biosphere;

Different development of the personality of students: observation, sustainable cognitive interest, the desire for self-education and the application of knowledge gained in practice;

Formation of sanitary and hygienic culture, their environmental thinking and morality.

Educational: possess certain eco-logical knowledge and hygienic knowledge - an important component of the culture of each person;

Developing: develop informative - practical orientation, freedom and creative thought, general training skills of work with research and popular literary in the Internet sources

Educational: Educate students with the means of this lesson for the development of physically and morally healthy human society.

Regulatory: organize your workplace under the guidance of the teacher; To determine the plan for performing tasks in the lesson, evaluate the result of its activities.

Communicative: participate in dialogue in the lesson; answer the questions of the teacher, comrades in class; listen and understand the speech of others; Work in a small group.

Cognitive: navigate the textbook; Find the desired information in the text of the educational article.

Planned results

Subject

the influence of a person on individual components of nature and the influence of nature on all sides of human activity;

preparation of schoolchildren to practical activities in biology, ecology and medicine;

The establishment of harmonious relations with nature, with all alive, as the main value on Earth.

basic bioecological terminology and symbolism

Personal:

formation of interest in the global problem, the semi-inclined name: "environmental problem", which is associated with the deterioration of the qualitative characteristics of the surrounding person.

Intergovernmental: Relations with such academic disciplines as biology, chemistry, physics, geography - will contribute to a higher level of ownership of skills at this course and the realization of tasks before the preparation of schoolchildren.

Form lesson- Traditional

Technology - Problem learning

Studying a new material

Adverse Environment factors and their impact

On the body

A person is part of nature, so he is experiencing its laws. He reacts to the impact of natural factors, like any other living organism. It differs from all other living beings inhabiting land, conscious and active attitude towards the environment.

A person lives and worries in various natural conditions thanks to a wonderful adaptability to new living conditions, and most importantly because I learned to maintain and create a medium that needs a different means of protection. The person not only adapts to the surrounding external: medium, but also adapts it to him, actively transforming. Nature modified by man in turn provides both favorable and adverse action on. The living conditions of people. Therefore, it is necessary to know that in the environment is useful for the body, and what is harmful, ki's changes; Environments: favorable for the body,. And which unfavorable, changing natural natural suckers, using for the production of its wealth: forests, subsoil, water, etc., a person cares, mainly about obtaining a maximum economic effect. - At the same time, it is quite often not taken into account Possible, and real influence of these changes to the physical and mental health of a person, and sometimes on the state of the health of future generations, his gene pool.

Of course, harmful, the impact on the body is provided: Yado-twisted chemicals falling into water, food, air; Dust, increased radiation, microorganisms, pathogens of different personal diseases. Of the natural factors, certain fresh air and not contaminated water are certainly useful. There are factors that can be useful and harmful depending on how to use them. So, the sun's rays, necessary for normal human life, make great harm for their health with non-harmonious use. To maintain health, it is also necessary to understand how to deal with the causes of diseases, as well as know the protective forces of the body that maintain health. Thus, the causes of the diseases can be mechanical effects, such as shocks, stretching, squeezing, bends of living tissues of the body with force, exceeding their ability to resist (tissue breaks, bone passages, etc.). When exposed to high temperatures (hot fluids, metal, flames), the cells of the cell burn are dying, the inflammation is developing. With strong burns, the tissue is derived. The overall condition of the body is disturbed - burning bole, which requires long-term treatment. The overheating of the organ-bottom, accompanied by an increase in temperature to 42 "C, leads to a thermal impact that can end death as a result of a violation; thermoregulation. The heat punch may occur with prolonged exposure to sunlight. The influence on the organism of low temperatures is also dangerous. At the same time, there is frostbite of tissues - cell death. The general overochloride of the body causes a decrease in the temperature of the tola below the level necessary for the implementation of the life functions of the tissues, which leads to death. Cooling the body can cause pro-studious diseases. Different types of crushing have harmful effects on tissue and lead to diseases. Thus, ultraviolet rays causing the development of skin pigment and forming a tan, with an unlimited long-term lighting, can cause skin burns and cause skin cancer, lead to head overheating, to damage to brain dishs and the death of nerve cells. The thermal radiation causes the bond with painful consequences. ^ Radiation irradiation has a destructive effect on the hereditary cell of the cells, causing their death. Many other physical factors can have a damaging effect on the body. However, most of them become harmful to the body if their impact sharply exceeds the permissible norms (as in the case of actions of the sunlight).

Chemicals falling on the skin (acid, crack-chi) cause chemical burns. This is the destruction of the tissues of the organ-bottom due to a sharp change in the chemical composition and the reaction of the intercellular substance and cells. The ingress of harmful chemicals into the organism with a bench or through the organs of the du-khai causes poisoning. With a disadvantage or excess of chiic substances necessary for the normal activity of the body, there is a violation of its metabolic processes. In an example, narcotic substances, nicotine, alcohol, falling into the body, change the chemical composition of its inner medium and disturb the tissue metabolism of all organs, and especially the nervous tissue. With prolonged exposure to these substances, exchange processes are irreversible, and death comes.

The body is constantly exposed to disease-environment factors. However, cases of diseases are found not as often, as one could expect, if we consider that potential factors surround us, adversely affect the body.

People are strong, trained, constantly engaged in sports even in the time of the flu epidemic rarely, since their physical training helps the body to resist the harmful agents of the environment.

It is interesting:research Reasons , influencing the health of the population, showed that 50% of the lifestyle.

Think and answer.1. The impact of which environmental factors can cause? 2. Which of these factors call bad habits and why? 3. Give examples of factors that are useful in small doses for the body, and in large - harmful.

Explain the meaning of terms: adverse environmental factors, weakened organism.

Questions for reflection. 1. Why is the violation of the composition of the inner environment of the body adversely affects the functioning of many organs? Give specific examples. 2. How do you understand the wisdom of the ancients "not hurt"? 3. How can you explain the saying. "Your health in your hands"? 4. Is it possible to give an exemplary characteristic of the lifestyle, human behavior of a weak physically and often cleaner, unless you know?

Questions for self-control. 1. What properties of the body are manifested in the interaction of the body with an external environment? 2. How is the internal environment of the body with an external environment connected? 3. What functions are performed by com-ponents of the body's interior of the body, lymph, tissue fluid? 4. What environmental factors are favorable, and which are unfavorable? 5. Why is adverse factors, the environmental factors, the more severe negative effects cause diseases, while a strong organism copes with them and does not get sick?

Hosting presentations

Erotism is never limited to animal sexual activation, never, as Schopenhauer assumed, is not limited to the seduction of nature in order to continue the human race. It is rather a highly organized part of the social sense of personality, which reflects the whole person, as well as the degree of its connection with social life and preparing for life for two.

The development of the ability to love is moving forward under certain conditions or is inhibited by others. The situation in childhood is a decisive character, as the early decision regarding its future role as a woman.

Faith in own forces, an optimistic look for the future, the ability to establish contacts with people, the ability to infinitely rejoice, a non-visual attitude to the fact that the female sex and respect for the women's role is always a favorable factors.

Ignorance of his own feminine role or doubt for several years of childhood, strong attachment to a single person in the family, the overall sense of weakness and inferiority, upbringing without love, lack of confidence and others, ugliness, as well as beauty, and especially disrespectful Attitude towards the female semi can violate the preparation for love under any circumstances.

Unfavorable development

The position of the girl in childhood is extremely important. Unsuccessful marriage of parents, rudeness, drunkenness and recklessness of the father or frank infidelity make the daughters all the rest of his life think that they can repeat the fate of their unfortunate and deeply humiliated mother. Even if they have a wonderful sexual physique, their attitude towards men will never be free from suspicion, doubt and braking. Their task and the ultimate goal will avoid humiliation, which they seem to be mandatory in the women's role, and they will do everything to prevent this role for themselves. This brings into their lives, as well as in relationship with men, protection system in the form of suppression, nervous symptoms and sexual deviations. Along with this, their view of the world, their logic, habits and development of sexual motives, and in reality the whole course of their life makes it in the opposite direction. Dependence on the personality, which begins to develop in the early years of childhood, experience and more or less erroneous perspective, the only one, the final goal of eroticism changes to another surrogate goal (Ersatzziel). This goal always lies in the field of minor problems (sexual deviations of all types, allocation of some sexual parts), or it only carries out partial sexuality (frigidity), brings fear of men, indifference or disgust, or male trends and leads to a male role in sexual relations , as well as in all its lifestyle.

A similar partial or complete departure from the women's role has characteristic features. Very often we meet with the refusal of mothers to have and nursing children, but then again, in more favorable conditions, the child can become solely the main goal, as opposed to her husband. In most cases, the symptoms of neurosis of all species prevent the harmonic development of erotic relations. The tendency to prostitution and the exaggerated trends of polygamy also demonstrate antipathy to the women's role. Vaginism is also a vivid expression of such a deviation.

All these manifestations, withdrawing a female role, based on the dissatisfaction of the girls with their social status in society. Such a situation is cultivated by the explicit or impaired superiority of men, as well as the response active confrontation of women, which can vary from open rebellion to sluggish. The desire to change this situation causes the idea of \u200b\u200bthe government consisting of women, and on emancipation, and in the life of each individual personality, one hundreds of forms of "male protest" are reborn. Kant in his "anthropology" (1798) indicates similar examples. And in the collection of marriage songs Gerder * all times and peoples we find only sad songs.

[* Johann Gon Gerder (Johann G. von Herder) (1744-1803) - German philosopher, poet and critic.]

This can be added that a contrived public installation on female inferiority, almost complete excommunication of women from higher achievements in science and art - this is partly due to the insufficient preparation, partly due to the male influence on the development of artistic forms of expression - usually lead to irritability And loss of self-confidence at the very beginning, while only in choreography and in the theater, women very often reach the highest indicators. It is not surprising that dissatisfaction with a female role often leads to imitation of men - in fashion, desires and fantasies, in everyday behavior and eroticism. Not surprisingly, according to observations of experienced doctors, about 70% of Fryigid women, despite their magnificent physique.

Together with these arguments against the free development of sexuality in the direction of public and cultural forms of its expression and is usually inextricably connected with them, there is an abstract or weak preparation for the issues of love, which is a serious obstacle to sexual harmony. Permanent mutual suspicions, exorbitant selfingness, the need to surpass its partner, as well as the fear of suddenly, it is weaker, it impede the manifestation of spontaneous dedication and poison love relationships. Unattractive girls are simply afraid of sudden cooling from her husband, while beautiful women feel the depression, believing that they are perceived only as sexual objects, which insults their human dignity. This feeling is often exacerbated because of the bachelor habits of a partner, a bad passage or misunderstanding with their male sexuality. Clumsily, rudeness, inability to create psychological comfort during the first intimacy can lead to constant chagrins. Limiting the husband of freedom of movement on the soil of jealousy At the very beginning of marriage, the conception of a child, contrary to consent or against the desire of his wife, can have the same consequences. The sad childhood experience associated with fear, various kinds of prejudice concerning pain and hazards, towing women, even more increases the feeling of inferiority.

Sexual disorders

The development of sexual motivations inciterates the individual during the awakening of the instincts to engage in erotic self-satisfaction. Thus, sooner or later, in temptation or on its own initiative, partially in fear of the paid, partially encouraged by the medium and culture, the child shares satisfaction through masturbation, one way or another. Harmless in itself, it can contribute to the emergence of a constant habit of self-satisfaction, which prevents the normal development of sexuality and its content, and therefore strengthens the opinion against this practice, since at any time it can reduce sexual tension at any time.

This look contrasts sharply with the point of view of "somatics". For us, social difficulties and mistakes, bad leadership and not always appropriate training are in the foreground, while those who are looking for a reason primarily in the physical constitution of a person or pay too little attention to the above factors or consider them as a reaction to insufficient Developing glands. Against this we would put forward the following arguments:

1. Even the perfect organism can develop incorrectly after delusion and errors.

2. In some respects, the underdeveloped of the organs, including the endocrine glands, is sufficiently available by us in mind, naturally, in a wider context, and not in a purely physical aspect. This context includes the interaction of inferiority with the requirements of the appropriate culture, as well as how this connection affects self-esteem, leading ultimately to underestimated self-esteem.

3. Physical and mental education based on the sexual closure of women contributes to the emergence and other values \u200b\u200band interests that in turn leads to a change in the organic basis of the sexual function. On the soil of these changes further complications appear. Incentives coming from the outside world and contributing to the improvement of sexual function are extinguited; The pulses coming from the authority themselves stop or slow down and this organ is artificially frozen, which in the future due to the violent change in the lifestyle of the individual can lead to its full disorder. For example, "Hungry strike" (ANOREXIA NERVOSA) of girls, which may always be initiated by the "male protest" in the deviation of the women's role, the possibility of childbearing and the quality of the endocrine glands, decreases due to the extraordinary exhaustion of the body. But even in this case, sex issues are eliminated purely psychologically, since the nervous system is occupied only by the problems of saturation of the body and allocations.

Lesbian love, constancy of sexual fantasies, masturbation and pollutions are signs of male protests that give out fear of women in front of men, and from here and refusal from them. Homosexual visions do not prove the presence of homosexuality, as is usually taken in the philistine and ignorant understanding, it is only indicators of incorrect education. The desire for polygamy, exaggerated coquetry, passion for self-compromitations, fantasy about the role of the contents, repelled the requirement of a man - all this indicates a woman's attempts to avoid marriage. Ajulter is always a sign of a riot against her husband, an act of venge, which is usually masked by intentionally excited eroticism.

The first menstruation often gives a signal to the beginning of the struggle against the women's role, when there is insufficient preparation for this phenomenon. Often, countering every time flashes with a new force. The pain not caused by any natural causes apparently arises due to arbitrary cuts, slow blood circulation and because of the sad need to survive this phenomenon and the desire to get rid of it. This point of view confirms the fact that often after marriage, when it is still far from reconciliation with a female role, pain disappears. A widespread opinion is implied by uncleanness and painful state, often supported by both doctors, reduces women's sense of confidence in themselves and often contributes to the emergence of depression. The elevation of sexual feelings (which maybe therefore arise that safe themselves is very often observed during this period.

The approach of menopause, as well as she itself is extremely difficult time for women who consider youth and beauty as an almost only value for themselves. From that moment on, they even lose a hint of faith in their own significance. In a state of depression and despair, they often try to re-acquire this sense of importance by strengthening the requirements for their surroundings. Others involve themselves in non-resident conflicts on the soil of eroticism, which at this time does not disappear, but it is rejected everywhere, ridiculed and not perceived seriously.

Conclusion

Erroneous views on life interfere with men and women. Although we are really fully taking into account the physical concept of eroticism, we must insist that the personality position is crucial for the direction of eroticism and its shortcomings.

If we want to name the prerequisites for the healthy relationship of women to the questions of sexual life, which are not so often found, they should be:

1. Early education regarding the immutability of the sexual role and reconciliation with it.

2. Preparation for love in accordance with social interest.

3. Respectful attitude towards the women's role.

4. Establishment of the normal life of human society.

Male psychossecual attitude 31

Male psychosexual attitude in principle coincides with female. We always evaluate the latter in comparison with the ideal type of a man who imagine, and ultimately feel the difference in terms of human compatibility with other people in general and the compatibility of a man and a woman in particular. Our assessment of the features of a man also depends on these assumptions.

The difference between the floors is that our culture openly or indirectly recognized the men of privileges in love, in which women try to refuse. The lion's part of male activity in sexual life is due to its more active activities in life in general, but it is much easier for him, due to the fact that he cannot subsequently become pregnant that his role is reduced to active courtship, as well as due to traditions and physical strength . In accordance with this, men have another privilege: the generally accepted moral of sex life does not establish men such narrow borders in sex, as women.

Early development

Male sexual impulse manifests itself in varying degrees, usually long before puberty, and may have different erroneous directions during the execution period, youth or later. Thus, the attitude of a man to life problems will always affect his sexual development. This is all the more clear that there is no certain fixed level of sexual motivation, and its expressions may increase or decrease due to different reasons.

Already during adolescence, these reasons and psychological focus become the most clear. Sexual training primarily consists in strengthening the adequate role of the boy, in a growing understanding of the sexual problem and in a confident setting of a goal regarding love and marriage. Our society and its institutions take part of the concerns from those who are responsible for the education of the child. Various clothing, various games and educational criteria are aimed at ensuring that development goes correctly. The surrounding life, examples from the animal world, the means of education, observations help to penetrate the secret of sex; Reading, theaters, films, and often also the temptation completing this enlightenment. Since the boy in his life is increasingly meeting with the facts of love and marriage, since all educational practices are aimed at the social solution of issues of love and marriage in the future, and since all the increasing sexual motives are looking for exactly this decision, the youthful perception of the future in this is beginning to develop world.

The attitude of the boy to the opposite sex first is usually the character of hostility and superiority. Strong antipathy to women's clothing, not to mention the reluctance to be in the role of the girl, is more often considered an exaggerated sign of grave to their sexual role. This can be added that in subsequent adolescent years, even with joint training, this is usually detected by this sense of superiority; Girls refuse equality, as if it were necessary to act. "The boy proudly tears herself from the girl" *. Inside this critical gesture we find the features of attachment and love. Often, on the fourth, the fifth and sixth year, friendly inclinations appear, which may also be a critical and hostile nature. Often it is a tendency to tease the girls or find fault.

[* From Schiller's poem Die Glocke: "Vom Madchen Reisst Sich Der Knabe"]

Sexual motivation can give a reason for masturbation during the first years of life. Sometimes at an early age there are cases when children are engaged in the influence of the temptation, children are engaged in mutual masturbation or, especially in slums, ordinary sexual proximity. It should also be noted that for boys during their development, it is much easier to move from masturbation to homosexualism than to normal sexual behavior.

Paulic ripening

The fourteenth year is usually confidently drawn boys to masturbation, from which they are early or later released. During puberty, increasingly covering sexual motivation is expressed in more or less frequent pollutions. Weakness or bad view during this period always stems due to fear of illness or some violations in development. Masturbation and pollutions inherent in this period can be completely overcome. If they are preserved for long years, they should be considered as attempts to exception in the future of women.

During puberty, and then for whom the presentation time of the ideal girl is formed in the image of an inaccessible person. This ideal against the background of changes in other ideals changes its outlines. Often there is a fear of shocking this image or the girl itself, which personifies it. At the same time, very extravagant visions may occur. Often masturbation becomes an attempt to materialize voluptuous desires.

Along with these innocent feelings, the desire of coarse lust or entry into sexual relations is often found, going along the path of least resistance, usually with prostitutes or maids. Both those and others are intense, allowing to pass by a deep sense of love and marriage; In some cases, this happens constantly. These erroneous ways of young people often pushed experienced and inexperienced "educators." Only those who do not protect the absolute need for early sexual relations can overlap and at the same time are not afraid to give the full right to the existence of real love, where both partners are ready to support each other.

Customs and the daily life of society, all kinds of meetings, dances and joint events in which both sexes are involved, contribute and provoke the rapprochement initially, and then the development of relationships with girls. Preparation for the Union is a continuous and developing process. In reflections on the street, in the theater, in picturesque presentations are constantly present incentives that contribute to the emergence of sustainable thoughts about love and marriage. Marriage itself, naturally, is extremely related to economic and professional problems. Up to this point, there is a relatively long period, during which there are a lot of young people involved in a momentary love relationship or are subject to venereal diseases.

Marriage

When a man marries, he faces not only with the general requirements of the Institute of Marriage, but it almost always brings to the marriage and its individual needs, which, in most cases, not to the place, only upset the marriage relationship. The new situation will be a kind of trial of his preparation for marriage. This preparation will always reflect his worldview and attitudes towards women. The choice of girlfriend is usually always due to its requirements for the ideal woman and marriage.

Depending on how much the man was pleased with his mother and sister, and could he defend his rights in front of them, the choice falls on that girl who is mentally and physically similar to them or, on the contrary, differ. If he is a man who dreams of the heart of relationship, will choose a girl from which he will expect tenderness of feelings. If he likes to take the top in any rivalry, he will choose equal to himself on strength; Or he will prefer those who are in nature, figure and strength will be weaker. Naturally, it will lead to many mistakes, because not every girl will endure a constant enslavement.

If he is prepared for marriage accordingly, the further marriage will be entirely dependent on the partner. If the wife knows how to smooth out the angles, the married couple will be sexually a harmonic union in a sexy plan until the end of their livelihood. This is perhaps a rare case, proof of insufficient training of our offspring to marriage. In such cases, a sense of coolant friendship will develop, closely associated with sexuality, so unforeseen difficulties will not matter or will easily overcome. In such marriages there will be enough space for a new generation, which will be involved at the same partnership. Sexual problem will find a mutual solution that will not be considered as a partner pressure, and none of the members of the marriage union will feel as an object. Sexual attachment (Zugehorigkeit) will not be overshadowed until slowly fade in the aighty, often after sixty years. Sexual relationships will not experience flaws, as they will not give a reason for bad mood, exhaustion, disorders. But the picture changes for those who have poorly prepared for marriage. In a new situation with the onset of puberty, a period of possible and even desired sexuality, the lack of preparation of young people will be able to felt in any circumstances, and they themselves do not even give themselves the report. The feeling of danger from the outside or insufficient self-esteem makes the individual to see in sexuality, and hence in the woman and its devotion to her a greater or less threat to her own significance. Such personalities will experience a lack of frankness, which is the main requirement for healthy eroticism. In their behavior, deviations will be shown, the strongest of which are homosexuality and self-healism. It seems that all other types of sexual role shifts, such as fetishism, sadism, masochism and perverted behavior, discover us all the same feeling of danger and try to put the satisfaction of personal desires to the place of those that offers society in order to avoid checking their own Own significance. The choice of prostitutes and the preference of easily accessible proximity without any consequences detect the same weakness. When we correct this phenomenon, we can easily recognize in Don Juan and in cases of polygamy lack of courage, which characterizes those who do not want to look at the root, but prefers to achieve cheap success. Sexuality is a "two-price" (Nietzsche), the achievement of two equal partners. In love there is no place for the desire of one partner to live at the expense of another, thereby satisfying its vanity. It is about insulting, rudeness, it undermines the essence of erotic relations, because it is not considered with the laws of love.

Conclusion

Thus, we come to the conclusion that the view and degree of sexual behavior of the men, as well as women, proceed from his personality, as a rule, affect its activities and until his genital organs are almost virgin, are the result of its upbringing and preparation for marriage.

Poland and sexual maturity

Poland 32.

Attention to the subject of sex education recently became highly exaggerated. Many people, if so to speak, simply prevented on this problem. They want to illuminate this issue at any age and talk about the dangers of sexual ignorance. But if you make a tour of our own past and past other people, we will not find such great difficulties and dangers as they represent.

Biological difference.A child at the age of two must clarify that he or she is a boy or a girl. At this age, they should also explain that half a person can never be changed and that the boys grow to become men, and girls - women. If such a conversation was carried out, then the lack of other knowledge is not so dangerous. If the child convinced that the girl should not behave like a boy, and the boy is like a girl, then a sexual role will be enshrined in consciousness and you can be sure that the child will develop normally and prepare for his role. However, if the child believes that with the help of any focus he or she will be able to change his field, then future problems will not slow down to affect.

Reasons for concern are also obvious if parents always express the desire to change the sex of the child. In the "Source Source" Radcliffe Hall we can find an excellent literary description of this situation. Parents too often like to raise the girl as a boy and vice versa. They photograph their children dressed in the opposite sex. " Sometimes it happens that the girl looks like a boy, and people begin to contact her as another sex. This can lead to a big confusion that can be easily avoided.

Equal significance of the floors.You should avoid any sexual discussions that lead to the underestimation of the female and the praise of male as the highest. It is necessary to teach children to the idea that both sexes are equal. This is important not only to prevent the incompleteness complex from representatives of the underestimated sex, but also to prevent negative impact on male children. If the boys did not seek to think that they belong to the highest floor, they would not consider girls only as ordinary desire objects. Just as they would not evaluate the relationship between the sex in the perverted light, if they realized their future tasks.

In other words, the true problem of sex education lies not in a simple clarification of the children of the physiology of sexual relations - it includes the formation of the right attitude towards love and marriage. This is closely related to the issue of social device. If a person is socially unsuitable, he will turn into a joke on sex and will look at things only in terms of indulgence in his desires. This happens, of course, too often and is a reflection of the flaws of our culture. Women have to suffer due to the fact that in these conditions a man is much easier to play a leading role. But men also suffer from, because because of this imaginary superiority, they lose their inherent semi-values.

Physiological phase.As for the physiological aspect of sex education, it is not necessary that the children know about it in the earliest time of their lives. You can wait until the child will show curiosity in this matter until it wants to find out some particular things. Mother and father who are interested in the development of the child will understand when the right moment comes to introduce a child to the case, if he is too shy to ask questions. If he feels that his parents, his comrades, will ask questions, and in this case the answers must be given by necessity in accordance with the level of his understanding. It is necessary to avoid such answers that stimulate sexual tension.

In this regard, it can be noted that there is no constant need to worry because of the clearly premature manifestation of sexual instinct. Sexual development begins very early, essentially in the first weeks of life. It is well known that even the baby is experiencing erotic pleasure and that sometimes he tries to artificially stimulate erogenous zones. We should not be afraid of the symptoms of this nascent vice, but we must do everything to put an end to such vicious practice, without giving, however, demonstratively excessive importance of similar manifestations. If the child finds that we are concerned about these phenomena, he will deliberately continue his habit to attract attention. It is the above-mentioned actions of a child forcing us to assume that he is a victim of sexual attraction, while in fact he uses this habit as a means to be in sight. Usually, small children try to draw attention to themselves, playing their genitalia, for they know that their parents are afraid of such phenomena. Here there is the same psychology, as in the case when children are presented with patients, noting that then they are more like and indulged.

If you avoid all these forms of premature excitement of interest, there will be no reason for any concerns. It is necessary to talk about it only at the right time and in an affordable form, never irritating the child and always giving answers to honestly and without offensive. Moreover, it is impossible to lie to children if you want to keep their trust. If the child trusts his parents, he will not take into account the explanations that he hears from his comrades - and perhaps almost 90% of humanity receives knowledge of sex from friends - and will believe that parents say. Such cooperation, such a partnership between the child and parents is much more important than the various excuses to which it is resorted to believing that they meet the situation.

Summary.These comments summarize the most important aspects of the problem of sex education. We see here, as at all other stages of education, the exceptional importance of the sense of cooperation and the partnership inside the family. In the presence of cooperation, as well as early awareness of its sexual role and the equality of a man and a woman, a child will be well prepared for any trouble on his way. And most importantly, it is well prepared for the qualitative performance of his work.

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Poland, undoubtedly due to processes of both physical and psychological development. It begins and ends in girls a little earlier than the boys. Physical maturation applies to all organs and takes place even when the sex glands are weakened or absent at all, simply in the future secondary sexual signs are developing with deviations. Incorrect or inappropriate upbringing can become a temporary or constant interference for the psychological ripening of the child.

Dual manifestation of puberty.On poets, researchers, and simply for common sense, the two forms of manifestation of the same phenomenon, which allow a dual point of view, were especially influenced. On the one hand, we notice the increased opportunities that indicate a qualitative and quantitative increase in abilities. They include public and professional activities, the possibility of abstract thinking, the desire to seek praise, thirst for social and interpovery union, disclosure and approval of their own personality, the formation of a life goal and entry into the professional sphere. Along with this, the desire for idealism is often noted, the development of life philosophy, penetration into the inner world of man, idealization and spiritualization of sexuality and the formation of value orientation. All these manifestations express their obvious essence during the transition period from childhood to adolescence, namely from 13 to 21 years.

On the other hand, if you attribute the relevant criteria related to the adult person to this period, there will be obvious disadvantages. The clumsiness and awkwardness caused by the inadequate perception of changes that occurred in the organs of movement that became larger and stronger; manifestations from time to time shyness and timidity in unusual situations; defiance; skeptical and educational behavior; Often an excessive emphasized desire for its significance; Effective delight, charm, excess energy; Eustion of phrases and slogans, as if with their help, the resolution of life mysteries is possible; dismissive attitude to previously recognized values; Resistance and opposition to coercion from the principle also against cultural values \u200b\u200b- all this characterizes this period. It also includes deviations and extremes of all sorts of species that are broken down as a protest and an open or a secret riot against a sense of inferiority from childhood.

Thus, life during puberty does not seem separated from the rest of society and is often so convex that many people believe that young people obeys only their own laws and has their own lifestyle. Recently, youth male organizations began to stand out, especially in Germany. Of course, they understand the positive value of the partnership. But they also nourish a certain hostility to culture, which is sometimes expressed in solitude, the state of war towards the "fathers" and ignoring women's society.

Inseparable communication with childhood.The most close observation will not detect any new manifestations during the period of puberty. In all manifestations of this period, you can easily recognize a more developed level of what has already happened in childhood. Sexual maturity with its approach to adulthood, with the ripening of the body and the complex of increasing physical and psychological sex requests faces expectations of the future, as it happens during experiments. A growing child takes this attitude to life and its present and future requirements in accordance with previous education. On social problems and issues of relationship with comrades in the formula "I - you" will begin to show friendly, friendly and universal features - or their opposite, depending on the development of social feeling in childhood.

In relation to the choice of profession, it is possible to notice the approach to it or a departure from it depending on the degree of confidence in its own opportunities. Evaluation and views on sexuality and its true goal in early adolescence are becoming much more clear from a young guy or a girl if they are provided with great independence and freedom, as well as there are great tolerance by adults. These and other issues on the problem of puberty, set for a very long time, are answered, showing the level of development of the social interest of an individual, his desire for significance and a sense of inferiority.

Incorrect maturation.An illiterate education in childhood is mainly in incomplete preparation for life, whether it is a public, professional or sexual area, as well as in neglecting the development issues in a child confidence and their forces and forming masculinity. Life in our society requires training, as well as an optimistic and decisive attitude towards her, and otherwise conflicts and contradictions that arise in childhood, at school, in the family and in relationships with comrades are inevitable. Their influence addicts especially on weak and affiliates due to their excessive sensitivity and indecision, which constantly take place where the smallest resistance is supposed. Thus, very often in the period-puberty on the threshold of adulthood, where it is necessary to make decisions, a clear or hidden deviation from generally accepted behaviors is detected, the value of which is explicitly aimed at avoiding tests.

If you understand all the unpleasant unrest related to the period of puberty, as an attempt to compensate for the incompleteness, then much of what was considered a phenomenon, and the effect of puberty is explained by the result of translational, but inadequate adult. Since children, as a rule, are not prepared accordingly to life, the test period of puberty leads to conflicts. The youth often dwells in infantal state, the main cause of which lies in a lack of confidence in most of the population, upbringing to submission, excessive love or its absence and the burden of too high expectations from the future. As a result, there is a widespread tendency to die and excuses, as well as the desire to avoid increasing requirements.

Frequent attempts to find excuses to care from social, professional and love problems by injection conflicts deserve special attention. Not from strength, but from weakness lifestyle is then often turning into imitation, involving the creation of the illusion of this strength. Often in the family flashes meaningless struggle; Nice battles with real and imaginary authoritations take away all the forces; hate, disgust and just the lack of interest in the profession

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